Married women unknown sex secrets

In a woman's inner world has some ability to influence the couple's feelings of secret, they are often reluctant to disclose these sexual secret man, man can only since a to explore and manage.

Sexual interest

In the reform and opening-up of today, many husbands just make money, ignoring the sexual love.

Busy work that sexual energy reduction, over time, will make his wife have sex hunger. 30 years old when in counseling of Betula said: "I married for ten years-the couple sex has been a very harmonious, but since her husband's business, our sex life is less and less, however, each time after total feel very tired, so I had the pleasure of sex are all gone. I have tried several times to indicate that my inner world, but each word to mouth did not say. ”

Because women in the sex often lack of initiative, the men often think women lack of sexual interest, in fact, this is a misunderstanding.

Sex is a normal physiological and psychological needs, whether man or woman is sexual demands, and when the woman appears in cold or hunger, they are eager for sexual taste. Women need sex, desire for sex appeal, it was natural and reasonable, justified, do not use this as a sexual bawdy, sexual sensuality.

Sex is common to both spouses, regardless of which party has the obligation to cooperate with each other, but also from the rights acquired meet.

Therefore, when the wife needs sex, tell her husband so that it fits and acquired meet. However, if the husband energy shortage or not well, as my wife's sake for him also to efforts to restrain ourselves at the same time having the initiative concerned with thoughtful husband not because of their sexual needs cannot be met

The resentment, accused the husband, this will only lead to feelings of husband and wife.

As a husband, even if the fighting were to leave some effort and time to love.

Love takes time to consolidate, the accumulation of harmonious experience.

Contemporary sexuality scientists repeated appeals for sex a little time and effort, its significance lies in this.

So, what do I need a woman sex appeal?, in fact, women of all ages tend to taste requirements.

In General, women pray over 20-year-old romantic sex appeal. Showing love, rich picturesque; thirties female, with the love of mature, they long to be husband shared housework, education of children and family life; the female forties, mostly hope husband have enough time for emotional communication; female fifties, focusing on the situation, they long to be with her husband, remembering that the southern Northland. For this, the husband should be good at observing, exploring, given his wife sex appeal in a timely manner in order to meet their requirements.

Of suspicion

Afang husband is the Manager of a company, the couple emotion has been very good.

But when such counseling afang in say: "my husband recently often Lady clerk brought home, although I know they are working, and I know he would not leave me, but I never see the female Secretary heart beating. Whenever you make love with her husband, she appeared as soon as they are in my eyes, all of a sudden, I was without any interest, I'd like to change my mind and told her husband, but are afraid of damaging his pride. What should I do? "

Afang of this psychological repression by the husband and heterosexual intercourse too often the result.

As the wife of this psychology is understandable. However for modern families, husband and wife should give each other a spatial distance, allow person-to-person relations contacts, including the normal communication with the opposite sex. These relationships include: colleagues, classmates, friends, etc. As long as they cause, solidarity and friendship, as his wife without having to think too much. If I get jealous wife doubts livings, becomes the Dafa is not necessary. Of course, the wife of ideas can where appropriate, adopt indirect or direct way told her husband, the husband of sympathy and understanding, this kind of communication or emotional exchanges, on sexual harmony is very necessary. Otherwise, this misunderstanding or suspicion of psychological healing depression more deep, inevitably affect couples sex and couple feelings, often also in existence lead to family breakdown, this lesson should, as a wife to frequent them well.

As a husband, should know that between the sexes, women jealousy is usually more men strong, suspicion, I get jealous mind, this is the female sex psychological weaknesses.

On the contrary, this is also the advantage of women. Women's one of the biggest advantage is the love of single-minded and selfish. As the saying goes: "love and hate. "Therefore, men and heterosexual intercourse should attention certain scale, to remain decent, non leichi step, to prevent harm to the wife of one of my love.

Sexual fantasies

The woman in the eyes of the image of American Idol if lost, they often will produce sexual fantasy.

Woman is the most peculiar to imagine the image and fantasies perfectly together, to understand, to feel her love of man.

30-year-old axia in counseling, said: "in love, he looks elegant, white shirt, a character's hair ...

After his marriage, he gradually changed, clothes are often several days without washing the not-for-a day smoke day wine, home nosedived into bed and sleep, I see this situation, my heart is gone. I often dream, there can be a bit 潇潇 sprinkled sprinkles, neat, and know my heart Prince charming come to me, and he with me would rather give my all ... "

40-year-old Jane said: "the economic downturn of the unit's husband, he returned home he sighed, spirit, despite my entreaties, comforted him, but no improvement, although I love him, distressed him, but I don't know why I often dream of young lovers together.

Really,I always like to fantasy. ”

These two women have sexual fantasy is not accidental, but rather by her husband's image is not beauty, germination, husbands should understand during sex, different people and animals, is one of the human existence of sexual fantasy.

Of psychologists believe that as long as sexual fantasy is not excessive, is not a bad thing, a bit of fantasy but will make sex more harmonious and more romantic and sexual interest. For women, their sexual fantasies more inclined to romantic fantasy, like a Prince charming-lovers, some filled with romantic environment encounters, and so on. Young women are often the object of fantasy sports, movie star or pop star; whereas middle-aged women fantasy object is their lovers and their loved ones.

Moderate sexual fantasy is not necessarily a bad thing, however, excessive sexual fantasies but affect couples sex, even lead to marital affection.

Therefore, as the wife once had a sexual fantasy, may wish to tell her husband, to her husband know produce sexual fantasy to the image of her husband by is not caused by us. As a husband and wife should be in the mind set an image of beauty, in order to revitalize the specific effect between husband and wife.

(Editors: Yuan-Kee)