Why her husband on the Internet only passion only?

Me and her husband were married for more than two years, had married life, he is always very cold, no passion.

Although his sexual functioning, but sexual desire is not strong, never make sex with my intimacy or. Sometimes I take the initiative on his arms, he also became impatient. I wonder if personality, he is also the other woman, never make exchanges; on the way of beautiful girls, he never looked, there seems to be born female. But I found him like surfing the Internet, he was a passionate, "" fun running high, any lingering words, colored joke telling. To do this, I often argue with him.

I can honestly say that I love him, so his performance makes me very upset.

A friend of mine told me that he had only two possibilities: one is the conduct does not end; the second is psychological problems. I think if he is a psychological problem, I will forgive him; if there is a problem with the character, I left him. To test him, my friends Internet disguised as unfamiliar girl chatted with him, but finally he acquainted, about him, and he also promised that finally it each time you scream. His what? what should I do?

Expert answers:

From the analysis of the situation you speak, your husband has the following features: one in real life, not only do you have passion, on other women are not interested, in other words, in real life, he is not nearly nvse; the second is in the virtual network, his woman "of" fun, featuring male "true color"; third, the Internet has promised to female users of solicitation, but never for an appointment, and may reflect this point, he and the reality of women in contact with are not interested in real terms.

From his findings to the preliminary judge, his sex meet in orientation and a departure from the general population. Although his libido meet objects are female, but he gets sex meet way but with the general population have markedly different. General population through interaction with the reality of the opposite sex and physical contact to obtain sexual satisfaction, but he only network color emotion interested only in the virtual world of networks to show men "true color". Furthermore, he did not take advantage of online porn seduced specific contacts for reality, unlike the conduct does not end with online porn addicts.

From the perspective of medical psychology, your husband have psychological barriers that may exist.

It is recommended that you find together with her husband experienced counselors. If he can take the initiative, and the system of psychological treatment, usually for good results.

(Editors: Yuan-Kee)