Masturbation is keeping a low profile psychological balance of "relief"

In the past, Western and Eastern traditional culture that masturbation harmful. And foreign medical and psychology today on masturbation views spectacular line--masturbation harmless. This can break down the popular centuries have the ignorance of damaging "masturbation" misconception is a progress. However, it believes in "masturbation harmless" experts much thought and inevitably embarrassed in science through "masturbation harmful" fallacy, "masturbation" concept harmlessly and why it is difficult to the hearts of the people that still has a lot of young people in distress as a result of masturbation?

Author acquaintance own uneducated feelings, set counseling clinical practice experience of masturbation problem cases, solemnly: early masturbation harmful, because of their ignorance and superstition, not worth mentioning; in order to masturbation of counseling and psychotherapy with scientific ideas and points of view, the correct behavior should explore some of the guidance, will produce a mental disorder to masturbate.

As a result of masturbation from psychological problems did not originate from the "masturbation harmful" absurd theory, but sound rational and abnormal behavior in the conflict.

Masturbation is typical of the Privacy Act, because of its concept to public morals, and that should not become a "topic" of the freezing point. In my personal accumulation of information about masturbation interviews, 85 percent of men and 90% of women in the early days of masturbation, and do not know their behaviour is masturbation, knowing "masturbation harmful" crooked. And to their difficulty from this behavior in freefall, feel tired tiredness of from physiological and psychological decadence is through books, media "condemnation". It is worth mentioning: they generally accepted is harmless "masturbation" propaganda, but psychological problems see release; "masturbation harmful" odd though is as critical a target, but people have coincided with the subjective experience and would rather believe.

Sex is a natural energy that need with the nature of free channels--syncretism between men and women.

Study: people with a normal way of life are two aspects of living wisdom holistic results: first, instinctive wisdom, this is a human evolutionary process, to form a natural instinctive passed on cognitive behavioural patterns. People's instinctive wisdom embodied in the sexual act, is not to learn and be able to both men and women positive relative implementation of psychosomatic and nature of love. People will instinctively hate other forms of sexual behavior, including independence--masturbation. Second, the acquisition of wisdom, this is the individual socialization process developed psychological and behavioral patterns. Real life are what give us such a sense of existence--the men and women together is wholesome happy life, alone is a tough spirit. But this entirely as masturbation acquired wisdom be tolerated by the unusual behavior, how may feel at ease and confident of meeting?

Masturbation because their own sexual overtones and defined as sexual intercourse.

In fact, masturbation, and cannot get real full joy and satisfaction. Mental masturbation behavior: the lack of broad background so evocative of action target, real life can't make sense of themselves, the spirit is in vain, and curb State. Thus masturbation sex, is not of itself, but rather chose masturbation as psychological catharsis reality in order to obtain the pressure low psychological balance of behavior. Psychiatrist clearly see this, you can only ask questions with masturbation together seeking to ' constructive lifestyle, let them cleanly to say goodbye to yesterday.

Many people recommend: moderate masturbation and not too often.

However, once the formation of habits of the Act, the desire of the impulse you will no longer be under the control of self-discipline.

In addition, some young masturbation, often becomes introvert, social problems, like poor.

The beginning of the 20th century, the United States well-known medical Professor authoritative masters and Johnson, Ph.d., to the scientific studies prove that the positivism: men once reached orgasm masturbation, and a full sexual intercourse on the body of no significant difference. Accordingly, the issue of scholars have become such a logic--now that masturbation is not in itself constitute a masturbation harmful commentators advocate harm, masturbation, and generally results in psychological stress, physical problems, then the accounts should be written in "masturbation harmful" erroneous beliefs. In other words, if not "masturbation harmful" misconception, simply does not produce psychological problems after masturbation.

People are the physical and mental body, the effects of masturbation on not only physiological effects on the mental health impact cannot be ignored.

This is a bad psychological feeling of "masturbation"-after effects-masturbation by cannot in the normal way to solve the problem of demand, leading to the loss of self-esteem, not inferior to communicate, it is difficult to untangle the hearts of atresia. Come to this behavior is difficult to get out of a sense of emptiness that many young people not only masturbation does not relax and pleasure, the only thing too after decadent and sad, this state of mind, unable to optimistic and enterprising spirit to work, it is difficult to open steadily enlightened.

The author believes that masturbation is neither harmful on the exaggerated so harmful, nor the casual friendly on so harmless.

If you enjoy real life status, masturbation is you keep a low profile psychological balance of "relief", if you want constructive life, we must take with masturbation. In years of psychotherapy practice, I explored a kick of counseling strategies: masturbation fully adjusted life rhythm and content, desalination has adverse impact. Just now you have a goal, there are dynamic, honestly our wisdom and sweat, optimistically towards hard and setbacks, society, culture and taste, you will be a new you!

(Practice editing: Yuan-Kee)